What is Financial Domination?

The concept is simple enough. The submissive in the FinDom relationship has a fetish for giving his Dominant money. His power is his money, and giving his money to his Domme gives him pleasure. Whether that pleasure is sexual, or psychological, or both, giving power to the Dominant is key. …

Why Spanking and Pegging Go Hand in Hand… or Hand on Bottom

  There is a definitive difference, unbeknownst to many in the BDSM and fetish communities, between spankos and general BDSM. (Please note that “general BDSM” is a highly simplified generalization.) This difference can be seen in our sister article, “What’s the Difference Between Spanko’s and BDSM?”   The aspects of …

What’s the Difference Between Spankos and BDSM?

    From the outside looking in, spanking is an integral part of the BDSM lifestyle. When a submissive or slave breaks a rule or commits some infraction, or when a sadistic Dom, or Domme, or Top, and so on, decides it fancies them, punishment is in order. Spanking is …

What is Domestic Discipline?

  What is Domestic Discipline? Domestic Discipline offers an alternative lifestyle for couples, polyamorous families, and others. The ideas discussed here will refer to a couple. However, as is the way of the BDSM lifestylers, all things can be adapted to suit the desires of the group. So, what is …

What is painal?

What is Painal? The answer to this question may seem straight forward to those vanilla folks out there, or to the less adventurous who are fearful of anal sex. However, there’s a lot more than meets the eye when it comes to anal sex. And when anal pleasure is deliberately …